Being Called Fat or Big?

Dear curvy ladies, today I would like to discuss the f bomb and b bomb. I get called, “fat or big “, often and it upsets me. Anyone else can relate? I guess some men do not understand a curvy woman’s body and know that not everyone is a twig.


It is the worse feeling when we as curvy women are not accepted, because men do not like the size of our bodies. It drives us crazy and gives us hopeless thoughts. As curvy women we are to accept ourselves and not depend on the opinions of others, it becomes a problem when a man expects you to look different.


Ever do online dating? Online you upload your photos and never forget to add full body pictures. You get tons of messages, ” Hey I like your curves. ” It makes you happy enough to say thanks and eventually you meet in person with this guy and he is like, ‘ You sure are curvy”, and then 5 minutes later he becomes all judgmental and wants to tell you that you are a little big and need to tone up.


When they say that it seems like we fall off the earth as it is rotating and puts us in very sad mood for days, not just an hour. His rude comments put all these horrible thoughts in your head and puts you down. All the confidence is down and we have low self esteem.


It makes us not want to date anymore because we do not feel accepted by society. You know what I say? Forget what society says, or what,
” The Perfect body”, is supposed to look like.


So what if we’re not skinny or fat. We are in between and that is what makes us unique and confident. There is and will always be a place for us in this world no matter what foolish, low self esteem men think. Forget about them! Focus more on yourself, eat healthy, live your life, and one day all your blessings will come.


No one will ever put us down. We walk around with our head up high, and curves blooming because whether some men or people like it, curves are in and it is a movement that no one will ever be able to change! Curvy girls rock and always will. Embrace your curves and thickness ladies. It is what makes us who we are.


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