Being Called Fat or Big?

Dear curvy ladies, today I would like to discuss the f bomb and b bomb. I get called, “fat or big “, often and it upsets me. Anyone else can relate? I guess some men do not understand a curvy woman’s body and know that not everyone is a twig.


It is the worse feeling when we as curvy women are not accepted, because men do not like the size of our bodies. It drives us crazy and gives us hopeless thoughts. As curvy women we are to accept ourselves and not depend on the opinions of others, it becomes a problem when a man expects you to look different.


Ever do online dating? Online you upload your photos and never forget to add full body pictures. You get tons of messages, ” Hey I like your curves. ” It makes you happy enough to say thanks and eventually you meet in person with this guy and he is like, ‘ You sure are curvy”, and then 5 minutes later he becomes all judgmental and wants to tell you that you are a little big and need to tone up.


When they say that it seems like we fall off the earth as it is rotating and puts us in very sad mood for days, not just an hour. His rude comments put all these horrible thoughts in your head and puts you down. All the confidence is down and we have low self esteem.


It makes us not want to date anymore because we do not feel accepted by society. You know what I say? Forget what society says, or what,
” The Perfect body”, is supposed to look like.


So what if we’re not skinny or fat. We are in between and that is what makes us unique and confident. There is and will always be a place for us in this world no matter what foolish, low self esteem men think. Forget about them! Focus more on yourself, eat healthy, live your life, and one day all your blessings will come.


No one will ever put us down. We walk around with our head up high, and curves blooming because whether some men or people like it, curves are in and it is a movement that no one will ever be able to change! Curvy girls rock and always will. Embrace your curves and thickness ladies. It is what makes us who we are.

The New Maybelline Mini City Pallete @Influenster

Hey lovies welcome back to my page! Today I will be doing a review on The New Maybelline City Mini Voxbox that I received free from Influenster. Besides being into health and fitness I also am a Beauty Guru. This will be my honest review on the free box I received.

I honestly want to say that i love this palette and am totally obsessed with it. The palette I received was Dowmtown Sunrise and I am happy they are summer shades! The perfect shades for the summer now that it is here. They are also good for highlighting. Such a fabulous palette. I loveeee it! 

I created gorgeous summer looks on my Instagram. The texture of the eyeshadows are very creamy and silky. It definitley is the best eyeshadows I have ever owned and I appreciate Influenster for sending me them.

If you are interested in becoming a Beauty Guru on Influenster be sure to check them out on Instagram and Twitter @Influenster

#CityMinis #contest #complimentary @Influenster @Maybelline

About Me

Hi, I’m Coach Moon and welcome to my Health and Fitness blogs!   I am a Nursing Graduate, Kinesiology Major, Fitness Enthusiast, Influenster, and Aspiring Curvy Model. All recipes created are mine! I love writing, dancing, and all things health related. I am a curvy woman and have dedicated these blogs to curvy women and women of all sizes. I will be sharing my personal experience, meal guides, and exercise tips on my blogs.

By making these blogs I am encouraging others to become more healthy and live happy lifestyles. I want to motivate others to push themselves daily to improve their health. My motto is to Eat Clean, Exercise, Maintain Curves,  and Be Happy. I hope you all love these blogs. Enjoy them.